To wed in a church or courthouse?

When your boyfriend finally proposes and you accept, immediately you start making plans forCOURT-HOUSE the wedding. One of the first questions that will need to be answered before you can make any other plans is going to be whether you are going to get married in a church or just go to the courthouse and save money. Guys, let me give you a little advice. If you are the ones who raise this question, be very careful about the way in which you ask your girlfriend this question, because if you are not careful there may not even be a wedding.

Every little girl dreams of having a big fancy church wedding with her daddy walking her down the aisle. Or, at least that’s the way it used to be. Today, you will find more and more women who would prefer to get married in the courthouse and save the money for an extravagant reception and honeymoon. Most men would prefer getting married in a courthouse rather than in a fancy church ceremony to avoid having to wear a tuxedo for many hours. But, there are some men who are hopeless romantics and want a fairy tale wedding just as much as most women do.

When trying to decide between a church wedding or a courthouse wedding, remember that there are pros and cons to both options. Also, consider the fact that both of your families are going to want to add their opinions on this subject matter. Keep in mind that no matter what decision you make, you can’t please everyone; so ultimately, the two of you will have to make the final decision and then be completely happy with whatever decision you both make.

wedding-churchWhile a church wedding is every little girl’s dream as well as a beautiful way to create memories and share your special day with family and friends, a church wedding can also be very expensive. A courthouse wedding, on the other hand, is not expensive at all but you can’t fit all of your family and friends into a courtroom to share the special event.

You are going to have the difficult choice of deciding whether you want to spend a lot of money on a church wedding, reception, and honeymoon, or have a courthouse wedding and save your money for the reception and honeymoon, and you will probably make someone in the family mad no matter what choice you decide to make. As long as the two of you are in agreement and make your decision together, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks about it. It is your special day and you should be allowed to celebrate it the way you want.

When Stepparents are involved in Getting Married

step parents with Bride and GroomYears and years ago, getting married used to include the bride’s parents and the groom’s parents, the father of the bride walked the bride down the aisle, and the mother and father of the bride gave her away to be joined with her husband. Over the years though, you see more and more couples getting married where one or both of them have stepparents due to divorce of their biological parents. So, the question of how to involve the biological parents and the stepparents in the wedding might be raised.

For some, involving the stepparents is not a difficult task. It seems that the two sets of parents get along with each other or are at least civil to one another, so involving everyone in your wedding won’t be risky and won’t offend anyone. But there are circumstances where none of the parents, biological or stepparent, can get along at all, they can’t even seem to be in the same room for five minutes without some kind of a disagreement taking place. You might ask how to go about handling a situation such as that one.

We highly suggest that you sit down with both sets of parents and inform them that you would like for all of them to participate in and share in your big day, but that you have some reservations about doing so, and then explain to them what your reservations are and ask if they have any suggestions on how this can be worked out so that all of them can share in your day with you. Do not be afraid to tell them exactly how you expect things to go because this is your special day and not a single part of it should be ruined just because four adults can’t seem to be civil to one another for a few hours for the sake of your happiness.

There are a couple of things that you can do to include them all in your ceremony. One way would be to sit all four of them in the row designated for the parents. Another way would be to take two different sets of wedding pictures, one with the biological family and one with the stepfamily. And, another very important way to include both sets of parents would be to allow both dads to walk their little girl down the aisle, one on each side of her.

The point is, this is your day and nothing should be allowed to ruin it for you. Both sets of parents will have to be adult enough to be civil to each other throughout the wedding and reception. If this is something that they are unwilling or incapable of doing then there is no need for them to show up. It’s your day, remember that.

Mini Burgers & Sliders for Parties of all Kinds

miniburgerThe cheeseburger just got a makeover! The new look is one that puts less strain on your belt and your budget. Mini burgers and sliders are becoming the next fad in the food world. These teeny burgers are full of taste and pack a punch for those that prefer a bold and spicy taste. They are as versatile as the hamburger, just smaller.

Whether you are having a backyard barbecue or a glamorous cocktail party, these tasty and stylish treats can go on any menu. These teeny pockets of beef that used to be seen as greasy and cheap are now sleek and glam! They have made appearances on magazine covers, in restaurants, and everyone loves them.

Sliders for All Ages

Sliders for Small Kids: For younger kids, make fun minis. Have a little slider buffet for them.Buffet-Sliders_640x428 Buffets for small children can add an entirely new eating experience. More often than not, children eat what their mom or another adult puts on their plate. Let them be creative this summer and try something new.

Let them help! They can assist with everything from the preparation (be sure to have them wash their hands after handling raw meat) to gobbling them up! Set out ketchup, mustard, and pickles. Also have relish, cheese, and lots of napkins on hand! Set them up and watch them go. Being able to create their own special burger will be a learning experience and give them a sense of accomplishment and pride. Be prepared to sample from many creative creations.

Sliders for Teens: Tweens and teens also love to have different parties. Make the next one a mini party. Everything is going to be mini for them. Have mini cups, mini napkins, and mini burgers!

Be a little more creative with foods for teens and tweens. Have them already prepared with different cheeses, and some without. Other toppings and condiments like mushrooms, onions, ketchup, mustard, relish, and all of the other traditional fixings should be readily available. Encourage them to create different types of slider and try new things. Teens are often the pickiest eaters and will stick to the same foods in lieu of trying new ones.

Add a little glam. Provide some sliced avocado, tomato, cucumber, and squash for a little veggie touch. Have some dipping sauces available for them as well. Set out barbecue sauce, some different salad dressings, and honey mustard. You can also have some sweet and sour sauce available and even some marinara sauce! The kids will love it and they will have a great time sampling and sharing their ideas. It is a great way for them to mingle without the pressure of finding topics to talk about.

Sliders for Adults: Adults are also going to love slider parties and barbecues. You can serve sliders and mini burgers at sports gatherings, poker parties, and game nights. Make minis that have a spicy buffalo taste as a substitute for wings. Here’s a great recipe to follow:

1 rotisserie chicken, boned and chopped                                                                        buffalo chicken sliders
2 stalks of celery, finely chopped
1/2 Cup chopped carrots
2 cups of crumbled blue cheese
2/3 of a cup of buffalo wing sauce
12 split dinner rolls

Mix everything (but the rolls) together and bake in a 400 degree oven in a 9” X 13” baking dish for twenty minutes. Spoon the mixture onto the dinner rolls and there you have it! The guys will love it and it is healthier than beef.

The Glamorous Mini

You can also serve these at cocktail parties. Talk about versatile! You can make a version that is yummy and not at all messy. People will eat them as hors d’eouvres as they sip their drinks. Make a few different recipes if you like. The options are completely unlimited! Here’s a great recipe for wild mushroom beef sliders.
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Wild Mushroom Beef Sliders

2 pounds of ground sirloin
1 package of dried wild mushrooms
¼ cup of parsley (finely chopped in a spice mill)
2 tablespoons of Worcestershire sauce
4 tablespoons of extra virgin olive oil
6 medium shallots thinly sliced
¼ cup of sherry
16-20 miniature buns

In a medium-size mixing bowl, combine the ground beef, ground dried mushrooms, parsley, Worcestershire sauce, some salt and freshly ground black pepper. Mix well and then shape into patties. Place one medium and one large skillet over medium-high heat with 2 tablespoons of the olive oil in each pan. When the oil is hot, place the sliders into the large pan (as many as will fit comfortably, don’t crowd the party!). Cook until golden brown on the outside and cooked through inside, usually 3-4 minutes per side. Remove the cooked sliders from the pan to a dinner plate and cover them with foil to keep warm while the others cook.

In the smaller pan, caramelize the shallots, eight to ten minutes. Season the shallots with salt and freshly ground black pepper, then remove the pan from the heat and add in the sherry. Return the pan to the heat and cook away the liquid, scraping the bottom of the pan with a wooden spoon or spatula to free up all those tasty bits that are stuck to the bottom. Return the shallots to the pan and cook down. Serve atop the sliders for a gourmet look and taste!

Vegetarian Sliders

Alternatives to beef and other meat-based sliders include veggie sliders. Any veggie that can be vegetarian slidergrilled can also be made into a slider! You can season them how you like to fit every occasion and holiday. You can have a slider bar for those that want to create their own, or set out a few platters full of the tasty mini burgers. No matter your lifestyle, budget, or occasion sliders and mini burgers are versatile enough to suit your needs.

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