Pre-Wedding Tips for the Groom

Now that you’ve gotten the ring and proposal out of the way, here are a few tips to help your trip to the altar run smoothly:

  • Just as the bride needs time to organize her wedding gown, you will need to start looking into your options about 4 or 5 months before the big day. Don’t wait till the week before your wedding to figure out what you’re going to wear because you may not be able to find what you are after on such short notice.
  • Make sure you have decided beforehand if you will rent or purchase a suit for the day and also find out which style will suit you best. Your formalwear should be purchased or reserved about 4 months before the wedding.
  • Ask your bride for some details about her gown. This will help you to co-ordinate your outfits so that you’ll both look fantastic on the day and your outfits will compliment each other.
  • Try not to shave the day before your wedding. Have a shave right before you plan to get dressed for the ceremony. You’ll be soft and smooth for your bride. There’s nothing worse than prickling her with stubble.
  • The last thing you want is a shaving rash. Avoid razor burns by shaving in the direction of hair growth.
  • Keep breath mints in your pocket and you’ll have a fresh breath all day long.
  • On the day of your wedding eat a hearty breakfast and try to relax.
  • Don’t smoke or drink alcohol before the wedding ceremony. You will want to smell and behave your best when you arrive at the wedding ceremony location.
  • Perfume and flowers will fill the air so you don’t need to wear cologne. The clean smell of soap should be all you need.

Make sure you have these things before the wedding day:

  • Polished shoes
  • Shirt studs for tuxedo shirt
  • Tie
  • Cufflinks
  • Socks usually black
  • Tuxedo or suit
  • Cummerbund/vest

The Man Registry

We were internet surfing last evening looking for a few photos for a inspiration board we are designing for a client coming up and ran across this great website for the Groom.

www.themanregistry.com                                                                                  the-man-registry

What is The Man Registry?TheManRegistry.com is an online resource for grooms and is the internet leader in grooms wedding tips and wedding advice for grooms. The website features a specialized wedding gift registry featuring hundreds of wedding gifts tailored toward grooms, including electronics, barbecue grills and accessories, bar supplies, tools and outdoors gear and items from favorite sports teams — In addition to the wedding registry, the website also offers a wealth of information, how-to articles and resources designed to help successfully guide the 1.2 million grooms who get married each year through every step of the engagement, wedding and honeymoon planning processes.

Our Story

Three brothers started TheManRegistry.com in 2007 when they noticed that many of their close friends and family were getting married, but too often were registered for wedding gifts that were strictly geared toward the kitchen and bedroom. Where were the wedding gifts that the groom could get excited about? It was clear that creating a wedding registry tailored to grooms was necessary. Thus, TheManRegistry.com was conceived and built as the place where grooms and brides could register for wedding gifts they could put to use in the backyard, garage, or basement bar.

Here is a quote from ABC news about this site below:

Grooms-to-be can not only register on the site and pick out the type of gifts they’d want, but also pick up handy tips on how to pick out a tuxedo and numerous pointers on how to saddle up for the big day.

“I’ve heard of guys registering for PlayStations, tool sets, and camping equipment, and now there’s a brand-new online wedding registry site made just for guys — it’s called TheManRegistry.com. From barbeque grills to electronics, they’ve got it all.” ~ The Knot -

Pooches at Weddings?

All these unique trends are coming out for the upcoming year, but there is one that will always be a timeless unique one, your pooches at your wedding. What an awesome way to bring in your entire “family” in the wedding. It’s the perfect way to incorporate a ring bearer or flower girl, if you don’t have any young children in your family.

                                                                                   

You can even dress them up!! Put a cute little bow tie or even go as far as a dress! Not only will it look cute for pictures but it’s a way to have one less boutonnière (if you are working on a limited budget). Your guests at your wedding will love the thought incorporated with your dogs becoming members of the party. Just make sure your dogs have relieved themselves before they make the walk down the aisle, so there aren’t any surprises for the most special moment of your life.

Funniest Wedding Vows Clip

Ran across this video on You Tube and could not resist sharing…. I think the Groom had breakfast on his mind…. Watch the video and you will understand what I mean…

Meet the Special Moments Team- Bill W.

Bill Waterman finally conceded and joined the Special Moments Team in 2010 and has not looked back.. From being an Ordained Minister to the guy who designs and creates all of the fabulous arches and other interesting pieces to the New Wise guy for Weddings.. ( it is about the groom too ladies) Grooms in need we have someone on staff to advise and help you survive this thing called a wedding.. Need a Romantic Proposal Idea or great place take the One you LOVE ,to needing a last Guy’s HOO-RAH.. Bill is the Wise Guy!!!

Special Moments Team- Bill W.

Special Moments Team- Bill W.
All Around Great Guy =)

Color: Silver ( titanium or platinum in wedding color terminology)

Favorite food : chicken wings ( anytime , anywhere! )

Cocktail of choice: Ice Cold Bud Light

Favorite Music of Choice : Country – ( Top fav performers – Luke Bryant and Tim McGraw)

Favorite Radio Station –WQYK – Big Shout out to V-Girl !. Favorite Radio Personality Ever!!!

Hobby: Collecting Nascar Items, Fishing when I can, camping, and spending time with my Dogs.

Sport of choice: Obviously Nascar, but Football is # 2. ( Go Bucs!)

Favorite Movie: Grease, The Princess Bride, All of the Lethal Weapon Movies”,National Lampoons Vacations, and let’s not forget Caddy Shack. ENCORE. All Mel Brooks Movies!

Restaurant of Choice:Coney Island Hot Dogs. Downtown St. Petersburg.

Where were you born?  Providence R.I.

Alma Mater? Army Training Sir.( 8 years with the National Guard)

Favorite thing to do: Anything that doesn’t involve work.

Unknown fact about me: My Mother Owned a Candy Shop

Best Thing I Ever Ate: Chicken and Waffles at The Hangar at Albert Whitted..

Be Careful- Do Nothing New

Here are ten things you should not do the week before your wedding (collected from real life tragedies):

1. Try a new food (hello allergic reaction)
2. Wax anything you have never waxed before (bumpy red irritated skin… and itching)
3. Cook in the middle of the night (hello second degree burns – on my face!)
4. Overeat (it is a tight white dress after all)
5. Starve (it can be a loose white dress if you are not careful – and you can faint)
6. Do anything too sporty (although the cast is white too – it just doesn’t look so good with the dress)
7. Try new makeup (see number 1 and number 3)
8. Get a hair cut from a new beautician (I think this one is a no brainer)
9. Stay awake and worry (no makeup can hide truly dark circles)
10. Forget that it is just a party (down Bridezilla! – down girl!).

Proposal Pointers: Music to her Ears

Why not contact a local singer/songwriter to write a special tune for your special guy or gal?  Just imagine having a song written especially for the two of you and your story… it makes the moment so personal!  You can have the composer perform in the background while you’re down on one knee or have a recording playing for more intimate and private proposals.  A special bonus…play the song at your wedding as your first dance song! Just think of how many girls have swooned over this scene from the Wedding Singer…

What does the Mother of the Groom do?

Everyone is pretty clear on what the bride and her mother will be up to for the duration of your engagement: planning a wedding! Some women give the impression that they’ve been planning this event in their head since the first wedding they attended at the age of six, and now the starting pistol has fired in real life, look out!                                              mother-of-the-groom

Thing is, the mother of the groom is a woman, too, and maybe she’s been planning a wedding in her head, too. Only (in this wedding at any rate) she’s got a son, not a daughter. What does the mother of the groom do?

While she doesn’t do as much as the mother of the bride, there are a few things that are just for her.

 

1. Contact the bride’s family. This could be a phone call to say how happy the groom’s side is about the upcoming nuptials. It could be to arrange a dinner for the families — which may or may not include the bridal couple. All that is up to the mother of the mother-of-groom-on-phoneGroom. If the families have known each other forever, this will be very natural. If the families are strangers — well, what better way for the mother of the groom to ensure she gets to be part of the fun than by making sure she gets to know the bride’s mother?

 

2. If the couple is asking for input regarding the guests, provide a suggested guest list as soon as possible.

3. After the mother of the bride has selected her dress, the mother of the groom chooses one that complements the MOTB’s dress and the bridesmaids’ dresses. This means it shouldn’t clash. It does NOT mean the mothers have to match — either each other or the bridesmaids.                                                                                                                         rehearsal-dinner

4. The groom’s parents traditionally host the rehearsal dinner.   

 

It’s not quite the same as being mother of the bride, but the groom’s mother isn’t entirely out of the frenzy!

Groom’s Cakes and Cake Boxes

 I love a groom’s cake. While it’s been a strong tradition in the South, I’ve been seeing them more and more frequently as a nod or homage to something the groom loves without worrying about it “fitting in” with the bride’s decor scheme.                                                                                                     

 

armadillo-cake

                                             

 

 

 

 

 

 

  (Most of us will remember the bleeding armadillo cake from the “Blush and Bashful” wedding in Steel Magnolias)

  Here are some of my favorites groom’s cakes that I’ve seen lately. 

This blackberry cake via Confetti Cakes is hilarious. 

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coors-light-cakebbq grill grooms cake

 

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In the olden days, legend had it that if a woman slept with a piece of the groom’s cake under her pillow, she would dream of her future husband.  Who knows if that’s true, but slicing up the groom’s cake an placing it in an adorable favor box is a great way to kill two birds with one stone (or have your cake and eat it too, if your feeling punny).  Have your catering manager slice up the cake and place it into these great favor boxes ideas below for the guests to take home with them.

 

 

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What Is A Wedding Time Capsule?

A wedding time capsule is a time capsule that is filled on the day of a couples wedding. They weddingtimecapsulecome in all sorts of shapes and sizes and are ideal for packing away all of those precious things that made the day so very perfect. But, what should go in them? And, who should give a wedding gift like this to a couple? Anyone can give a time capsule including the groomsmen, the bridesmaids or even the couple themselves. The idea is to take today, this very important day in their lives and somehow capture it in a time capsule so that they can remember it years down the road.

As for what can go into one, there are many options to consider. A time capsule can be filled with wonderful things such as a favor from the party, the invitations to the reception, and a pamphlet from the actual ceremony. They can have that special wine glass stored safely away in it. They can even have the grooms tie if you would like. Virtually anything can be placed into a time capsule that you would like. A nice idea is for each member of the bridal party to write a special note that can be safely tucked away into the capsule. Consider filling it with pictures of the day, the guestbook from the day as well as a champagne bottle. Why not add in a copy of the wedding vows as well?

The time capsule can be purchased throughout the web. They are available for different themes as well as have their own ideas of what should go in them. Once they are filled and sealed, they can be opened at any time that the bride and the groom decide, the farther down the road into their marriage the better. Whatever it is that is put into these time capsules should forever mark the day for these two people.

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